
Golden Girls Party Planning Guide
Golden Girls Party
A step-by-step checklist for a Golden Girls birthday, girls' night or retirement party. Quantities are for 8 guests.
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Invitations & guest list
- Set the date, time and guest countEvening works well for this theme. Cheesecake and late-night talk are the whole point.
- Send invitationsSend a text, an e-vite or mailed invitations. Ask guests to RSVP 1 week out.
- Optional: dress codeAsk guests to come as their favorite girl: Dorothy (long cardigans), Rose (pastels), Blanche (florals and pearls) or Sophia (wicker purse).
- Decide on a formatSit-down dinner, dessert-only, or a bingo night. It decides how much food you need.
Order your party supplies
- Tableware for 8The Standard or Deluxe Pack Prime Party covers this. To build your own, get 8 dinner plates, 8 dessert plates, luncheon napkins, beverage napkins and a table cover.
- CupsThere are no Golden Girls cups, so plan on solid pink or gold cups from the store.
- Forks & spoonsGrab 20 of each: gold forks and gold spoons, or bright pink forks and spoons. Prime Party
- StreamersTwist two colors together: gold, bright pink or Caribbean blue for a Miami lanai feel. The gold chevron streamer is great over the dessert table. Prime Party
- Latex balloonsGold and pink pearlized balloons, plus a pair of pink-and-gold heart confetti balloons for the photo backdrop. Prime Party
- ConfettiScatter tropical confetti down the middle of the table for an instant Miami touch. Prime Party
- DécorFabric wall banner, jointed birthday banner and the red rose bouquet centerpiece.
- Cupcake wrappers (12) and water bottle labels (16)These set how many cupcakes and bottles you buy. See the food section.
- GamesBingo (up to 24 players) and Pin-the-Glasses on Sophia Prime Party.
- Yard sign"Another Year Closer to Shady Pines" or "Honk It's My Birthday." Stakes are included.
- Favor boxes (8)One per guest.
Plan the food & drinks
- Order or bake a cheesecakeOne 9-inch cheesecake serves 10–12. Strawberry topping is the classic. This is the centerpiece dessert, so serve it on the dessert plates.
- Order or bake 12 cupcakesYou have 12 cupcake wrappers, so get cupcakes, not a sheet cake. Plain white or strawberry frosting matches the theme. Put candles in one for the guest of honor.
- Buy 16 bottles of waterYou have 16 bottle labels, so that's 2 per guest. Standard 16.9 oz bottles are the easiest to wrap.
- Plan a main dish (if serving dinner)Sophia's Sicilian cooking is a natural fit: baked ziti, meatballs or lasagna, plus a salad and garlic bread.
- Plan the drinksMake a pitcher of Rose's St. Olaf Strawberry Lemonade Spritz (the recipe is after the store list), plus iced tea. Plan for 2–3 drinks per guest, plus the water.
- IcePlan on about 1 lb per guest, so one 10 lb bag.
Games & prizes
- Bingo: prizesWinners pick from the prize basket (see the DIY games below). Bingo is always a hit, so plan on 4–5 games. The boxed bingo game comes with markers. If you use a printable bingo game, pick up pennies or buttons as markers.
- Bingo: pick a callerHave the guest of honor call the first round.
- Pin-the-Glasses: blindfold + tapeHang the poster at eye level with painter's tape. Blindfold each player with a scarf, spin them twice, and the closest pin wins a small prize.
- Photo boothHang the fabric wall banner as the backdrop and set out the photo booth props Prime Party. A phone tripod or ring light helps.
- TriviaPrint this guide and leave the trivia page on the table. It's at the end of this checklist.
Bonus DIY games (free to make)
- Number Scramble: make the numbersWrite one big number per guest (1–8) on half sheets of 8.5 × 11 paper and tape them to the floor around the house. Write the same numbers on slips of paper and put them in a bowl.
- Number Scramble: how to playAbout every 15 minutes, ring a bell or play "Thank You for Being a Friend" on a speaker. Everyone scrambles to stand on an open number. Draw a slip from the bowl, and whoever is standing on that number picks a prize. Set the winning slip aside so more guests get a turn.
- Lucky Plate: mark one plateBefore you set the table, draw a small red heart or rose on the bottom of one dinner plate.
- Lucky Plate: the revealHalfway through the meal, announce that everyone should check under their plate. Whoever has the heart picks a prize.
- Prize basketFill a basket with 15–20 inexpensive prizes for winners to pick from: movie-theater candy boxes, $1–2 scratch tickets, mini candles, lip balm or cheesecake bites. Use it for bingo too. Buy more than you think you'll need. Leftover candy and scratch tickets make great thank-you prizes for your clean-up crew. 😉
Favors
- Buy favor box fillers for 8Chocolate truffles, butterscotch candies, mini lip balms, a cheesecake-flavored treat or a mini scratch-off.
- Optional take-homeA rose from the bouquet makes a sweet send-off.
Prep & set up
- Wrap the water bottlesPeel off the store labels, wrap with the Golden Girls labels and chill.
- Fill and fold the 8 favor boxes
- Make the Number Scramble signs and slips; mark the lucky plateTape the numbers down on party day so they don't get kicked around.
- Hang the wall banner and birthday bannerPut the wall banner behind the dessert or photo spot. Drape the jointed banner over a doorway or the food table.
- Inflate balloonsMix gold, pink and sunshine yellow. Air-filled balloons in clusters last longer than helium. Hang the streamers and scatter the confetti on the table last.
- Set out serving dishesPlan where each dish goes so the plate artwork stays visible. Food goes in bowls, not on the printed plates.
- Charge the phone or camera for photos
Run of show
| 3 hrs before | Stake the yard sign at the curb. Pick up the cheesecake and cupcakes. |
| 2 hrs before | Lay the table cover, set 8 places and put the rose bouquet in the center. |
| 1 hr before | Wrap the cupcakes, fill the cooler with ice and bottles, set out bingo cards and markers, and tape down the Number Scramble numbers. |
| Arrival | Theme song on, drinks in hand, photo booth open. |
| Every 15 min | Ring the bell for a Number Scramble round. |
| +30 min | Dinner or appetizers. Lucky Plate reveal halfway through. |
| +1 hr | Bingo, then Pin-the-Glasses on Sophia. |
| +1 hr 45 | Cupcakes and candles, "Happy Birthday," then cheesecake and trivia. |
| Goodbyes | Hand out the favor boxes at the door. |
Your pick-up list
Everything here comes from the grocery or dollar store.
- Food
- Cheesecake9-inch serves 10–12
- 12 cupcakesfor the wrappers
- Main dish + sidesbaked ziti, salad, garlic bread
- Snacks or appetizers
- Drinks
- 16 bottles of waterfor the labels
- Spritz ingredientssee the recipe below
- Iced tea
- Cupspink or gold solids
- Iceabout 10 lb
- Games & favors
- Prize basket: 15–20 small prizesget extra, since bingo usually runs 4–5 games
- Paper, tape + markerfor Number Scramble
- Bell or speaker
- Scarf for the blindfold
- Favor fillers for 8truffles, butterscotch, lip balm
- Supplies
- Painter's tape + removable hooks
- Balloon pump or helium + ribbon
- Serving bowls & platters
- Cake server
- Birthday candles + lighter
- Cooler or tub
Rose's St. Olaf Strawberry Lemonade Spritz
Ingredients
- 1 lb fresh strawberries, hulled (plus a few for garnish)
- ¾ cup sugar
- 1 cup fresh lemon juice (6–8 lemons)
- 4 cups cold water
- 4 cups chilled sparkling water or club soda
- Ice
- Lemon slices and fresh mint for garnish
Steps
- Blend the strawberries, sugar and 1 cup of the cold water until smooth. Pour through a fine strainer to remove the seeds.
- Stir in the lemon juice and the remaining 3 cups of water. Chill for at least 1 hour, or up to a day ahead.
- Just before guests arrive, pour into a pitcher half-full of ice and top with the sparkling water.
- Garnish each glass with a lemon slice, a sliced strawberry and a mint sprig.
Tip: For a bar-style touch, rim the glasses with pink sugar. Make a second batch for more than 8 guests.
12 Golden Girls Trivia Questions
Leave this page at the table and take turns reading them out loud. They make for fun conversations at the table and usually start a round of "remember when" stories.
- In which city do the Golden Girls share a house?
Show answer
Miami, Florida - What is the name of Rose's quirky Minnesota hometown?
Show answer
St. Olaf - Which retirement home did Sophia move out of after it burned down?
Show answer
Shady Pines - What dessert do the girls share during their late-night kitchen talks?
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Cheesecake - Who originally recorded the theme song "Thank You for Being a Friend"?
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Andrew Gold, in 1978 - What is Blanche's last name?
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Devereaux - What does Dorothy do for a living?
Show answer
She's a substitute teacher - What is the name of Dorothy's ex-husband?
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Stan Zbornak - What is Rose's last name?
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Nylund - On which TV network did The Golden Girls first air?
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NBC, from 1985 to 1992 - Which actress played Sophia, even though she was actually younger than her TV daughter Bea Arthur?
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Estelle Getty - What was the name of the spin-off series set in a Miami hotel?
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- St. Olaf
- Shady Pines
- Cheesecake
- Andrew Gold, in 1978
- Devereaux
- She's a substitute teacher
- Stan Zbornak
- Nylund
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